Tuesday, June 28, 2016

Why I Chose to do Newborn Photography

The first week with a new child can be a little daunting. You may be having issues sleeping, breastfeeding and getting adjusted to the new norm. On top of learning how to use all your new baby shower gifts, working on the baby’s feeding and sleeping schedule, managing guests (and do I dare throw in trying to sleep and shower in there somewhere?) there’s newborn photos that need to be scheduled. Do you need to throw this wrench into the mix? When do they need to be taken? Will you regret it if you don’t take them? Can you afford them?


Only you will really be able to answer these questions, but I’m going to say do it! Your child will grow so incredibly fast in the first year, and one of the only ways you’ll be able to remember just how small they really were (my little one was 4lbs. 8oz when he got his done) is to have these photos. You can also use one of them to send an announcement out to friends and family!


Little Toes
(Photography by Shawna Clark Photography)



When do you need to take them?


Your child is technically a newborn for the first four weeks, although I’ve heard that it’s best to take them after the umbilical cord falls off (which for us was around day 8 or 9), and before the acne sets in (which is after the first two weeks). I was told to do it in the first two weeks, or to wait until after six. We did ours on day 11 and it ended up being perfect.


Can’t afford a professional photographer?


I can tell you that I researched high and low for the best price without sacrificing quality on my newborn photos. I was sitting in the NICU contacting plenty, and all after buying the photos, disc, sitting and traveling fee were about the same. They are expensive, but there’s a reason why! Shawna, our newborn photographer came to the home with a caravan of items. She had me pick a theme (aka the backdrops all matching so that they would go good together in a collection and/or on our wall next to each other). I picked out baskets, I showed her ideas, etc. She brought a noise machine, small heater (to keep the baby warm while he was unclothed), etc. She was so patient and stayed with us for around four hours. Yes, she allowed me to breastfeed, change him, hold him and anything else I needed to do so we could get all of our photos in. I never felt rushed and felt incredibly lucky that I chose her for this special moment.


Most photographers these days do a baby club package, where you get to come in a few times a year for a discounted cost. This allows you to take a mix (usually three or four of the following) of maternity photos, newborn, three, six, nine and twelve month photos without having to pay the entire cost each time.


I personally was moving in the middle of having a child (he came four weeks early), so we did newborn pictures at our home (it was so worth the $75 travel fee) on day 11 and then packed up the UHAUL on day 12. If you’re having a rough first two weeks, this should make you feel better!


What are the most common photos within the first year?


The most common first year photos are:


Maternity
Newborn (first two weeks)
Three months (or when they can perform tummy time well)
Six months (or when they can sit up well)
Nine months (or when they can stand holding onto something well)
Twelve months/ 1 year photo
Twelve months/ Cake Smash photo (usually scheduled a week before their first birthday party)


Research photographers in your area and see if you can find one that has a Baby Club! They will usually offer three to four of these sessions for a discounted cost. They also usually do mini photo shoots if they line up with the same timeline. An example is our Christmas with Santa photo which was a mini photo shoot fell during his third month. If you’re not sure what a mini photo shoot is, think the cute holiday photos you see children taking these days. The photographer’s usually give each family a 15 minute shoot and a choice to select one or two photos from the session for a discounted price. The background and props are set for the day, and the children just plug into the set, smile and then it’s on to the next child in line.


Can’t afford newborn photography but still want the memories?


I understand that the going rate is costly. If you can’t afford a newborn photographer, I would recommend going to GROUPON and/or JCP and/or PICTURE PEOPLE to get a few done. For our four month photos (I personally waited until he could do a better tummy time), I bought a Groupon package for JCP PORTRAITS for $29.99 and had them done. They weren’t as personalized and unique as my newborn ones, but they were still a great professional quality. I did our six month ones with a photographer in our new area, and plan to do the nine-ish month ones again at JCP just to have a few around that age. For twelve months I will go back to a professional photographer. It allows me to have everything I personally wanted without completely breaking the bank.


I look terrible!


I will say another thing that I worried about was how heavy I still looked. Ladies, please still take pictures with your little ones! I realize that it’s hard to look at yourself when you still feel and look nine months pregnant, but I promise you they’ll be worth it. You just gave birth to a small miracle, and no matter how incredibly horrible you feel, how many bags you have under your eyes or rolls you have around your body- you will never look back and regret it.


So whether you bring your baby into JCP or PICTURE PEOPLE (CHECK GROUPON) or choose an awesome photographer in your area, I would recommend making the investment of your child’s memories! You’ll never regret it.

Share your favorite newborn photo or baby announcement with us below!

Monday, June 27, 2016

How I Stock up on My Favorite Diapers and Wipes to Save Myself Money

If you’re a new Mom, you’re going to be going through quite a few diapers and wipes in the next few years! Although purchasing one box and pack at a time may not seem like too much, I assure you that the cost will add up over time. That’s where you learn fancy ways to purchase like the Diaper Dash!


Recently Target displayed two great deals that cleared out the diaper section of every local store:


Buy Two Packs of Diapers, receive a $10 Gift Card
Buy $150 Worth of Baby Items, receive a $25 Gift Card


So what they said, is that if you purchased two $24.99 boxes of diapers, you get a $10 Gift Card. I put six boxes in my cart and received three $10 Gift Cards at the register.


Here’s the fun part!


By adding a three pack of wipes with the six $24.99 boxes, I also hit a total of $150 worth of baby items as well, so I received a $25 Gift Card for that as well.


So far, I’ve received $55 worth of Target Gift Cards to use on a future purchase (because this won’t be my last diaper run to the store of course!)


But wait, we aren’t done!


I also went online to COUPONS.COM and printed manufacturer coupons for $3 off Pampers diapers and .25 off Pampers wipes.


See where I’m going with this?


I came home with 768 diapers + 192 wipes for the final total of = $97.70 (which for me ended up being .12/diaper). If you’re not sure how good of a deal this is, Pampers are usually .27/diaper! There are some days I have changed four, yes four diapers in an hour. That ends up being .48 gone versus $1.08.


768 diapers + 192 wipes
Final Total = 97.70 (with tax, ended at .12/diaper)


2 boxes of diapers x 3 = $30 GC
Spend $150 = $25 GC
$3 off Pampers x 2 = $6 P&G
$1.55 off Pampers Baby Dry = $1.55 P&G
.25 off Pampers Wipes = .25 P&G

I hope this saves you a little time and money!


Scoring a great mommy deal at Target with my little!
Let me know if you try it in the comment section below. Have another fun way to save? Share it with us below!






Scoring a great mommy deal at Target with my little

Saturday, June 18, 2016

Getting Ready for the Hospital | What to Pack

Many people ponder for weeks over what to bring to the hospital for the birth of their child. They research lists online, ask friends and continue to slowly pack until the time is ready. I did things just a little bit different. :)

I drove myself into triage at 36 weeks pregnant at 11:25 p.m. in the evening, thinking I was just "checking a box" (aka getting checked to make sure my blood pressure was okay) and then planned to come back home. What did I bring with me? A NORTH FACE FLEECE and my small purse, after all I was just going to come back home, right? Well, needless to say I never stepped a foot back outside of labor and delivery for a whole seven days and I left with my beautiful baby boy in tow. How's that for planning? :)


I will admit that I started thinking about what I needed in a hospital bag. I chose which one I was going to take from my closet and started researching what other people brought. I heard everything from 'don't be afraid to roll a suitcase in' to 'top 50 things to have in your hospital bag'. Needless to say with the overwhelming amount of information, I bought a nightgown and matching robe (which I ended up never wearing), and put my hospital what to do book in the bag (that I also never touched). I thought I had four weeks, so I started working on other projects and thought I would come back to it.


So, now that I was in the hospital with one sweater and my cellphone and keys, I started to ask the nurse what I REALLY needed my family to grab for me. This is where you start:


1. Outfit for the baby to go home in

2. Outfit for yourself to go home in

That's what you ABSOLUTELY need. Don't let the overwhelming amount of information on the Internet make you think otherwise. I was in the hospital for a total of seven days and this is what I truly needed. Now sure, there are some extras that I wanted, which were:


1. Flip Flops


I wore mine in because it was part of my outfit, but I did wear them at times throughout the week. I will tell you that the hospital provides socks with slip resistant bottoms that work just as well, and I wore those quite a bit too.


2. Travel Size Shampoo & Conditioner


My family brought me this because after four days of looking terrible it was the only thing that really made me feel better. Quite honestly, if I asked the hospital I bet they could have provided this as well.


3. Deodorant & Toothbrush


Again, I'm sure the hospital has little travel sizes, but this was easy for them to grab with the shampoo and conditioner.


4. Camera


Not everyone wants the pictures my sweet Mother took of me actually pushing the baby out, but if you do- this would be another thing to grab. (A cell phone would also work, and the hospital usually has a professional photographer come in and snap a few photos before you leave if you're interested.)


5. Cell Phone Charger


I'm sure they've had quite a few left behind on accident, but of course if you're glued to a room for seven straight days, you may want to bring one of these. I happened to have one in my purse, but I realize that may not be the same for everyone. :)


There's a lot more that can be added to this list of course, but I think it's important to start with the necessities (what you absolutely need) and then start adding in what you want or would like.


What were some of the must have items that were on your list?

Monday, May 30, 2016

Birthing Experience | On The Night You Were Born


Here's the letter I wrote to my son after he was born:

Your birth story starts three weeks before you were due (five days before you arrived and 36 weeks and one day pregnant). I was asked to monitor my own blood pressure at home for possible preeclampsia, which was a little high after walking a Greek festival in 100 degree heat. I went into triage at 11:30 p.m. at night to "check a box" and go back home. After one hour, I was given a room and an IV of Magnesium, being told I was positive for preeclampsia and the only way for it to go away was to have you. I only brought a fleece sweater and my purse with me, so I was beyond shocked that I was having you so soon! The next few days I was slowly given Pitocin to help start contractions, staying on Magnesium to relax me at the same time. After a couple of days they filled a balloon to push against my cervix, broke my water and continued to up my dose of Pitocin to continue the process. Some of them were very painful, but I knew it was getting me closer to meeting you. On my birthday I thought for sure you would come, but it came and went. I was very thankful for your Grandma Christie, your dad and your Great Grandma Kay for helping me celebrate from my hospital bed. The day before you arrived I sat in the spa bath for three hours as they slowly up'd the contractions again. It finally started to feel different and I knew I'd be meeting you soon! I always knew you were coming in the middle of the night, so we all took bets on the whiteboard as to when you'd come. My guess was at 12:30 p.m., and crazy enough that's when I felt the urge to push. They gave me an oxygen mask to help you heart rate, as it was slowing down during the contractions. With a push of a button they called in an entire team to get you out as quickly as possible, but I stayed calm and in three pushes you were in my arms. I got to hold you for a second, and then we each had teams making sure we both were okay. Soon enough you were back in my arms for good and I knew it'd be okay. We had lots of visitors stop by to welcome you to the world, and then on day seven Dad and I were discharged to take you home. I was very lucky to have you at such a great facility, as UCSF opened a new facility months before. You were still born under the same hospital and city that your Dad was years before, so it was very special. We've been proud of you since the day you were born, and that will never change. It will always be one of the happiest days of my life. I love you!


I have tears reading and re-living it all over again. What a special week for our family!


How was your birthing experience? Feel free to share or comment below.

Saturday, May 28, 2016

Welcome to Littles and Lifts!

Thank you for following my journey as I balance a family, work and all of these crazy intense workouts! :) You’ll find that I’m very simple, but I love good quality. If you’ve ever heard the expression champagne taste on a Bud Light budget, I’ll admit they could be talking about me. I research, I wait and almost never get something if it isn’t on sale. If I pay full price, you better believe that I thought about it long and hard and found no possible way of getting it for less! Budgeting isn’t something I’m forced to do, but I do it to show myself that I can. I’m an avid CrossFitter and have been for the past five years. Thankfully my CrossFit community is amazing and I’m able to take my little one with me as I work out. You’ll hear a lot more about this as we go along, but it’s a huge part of my life for many reasons. I’m happily taken, however I’m forced to be a Full Time parent by myself for a few days of each week. I’ve chosen to look at the positive side of this experience (how many days do you get to leave the dishes dirty in the sink without a gripe?!), but I wouldn’t say it’s something I ever wished for. I definitely knew what I was getting into when I fell in love, and we have found a great balance for ourselves and family. I feel very lucky. If you’re interested in seeing what products I use, how I save a little extra money, hear about general things that I’ve learned along the way and want the inside scoop on a California CrossFit Mom, please subscribe and follow me on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Pinterest.

I’m excited to share my journey with you!